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How can I have a Philippine girlfriend?
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How can I have a Philippine girlfriend?
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There are three ways in which you can find yourself a FILIPINO girlfriend. Go into a dating site, after chatting to a girl, offer to send her some money every month, tell her that you'd love to meet her and her family one day, and you'll have yourself a Filipino girlfriend.Go to Manila, treat yourself to a night of bar hopping in Burgos Street, and you'll have yourself a girlfriend for as long as you are on holiday here. It'll cost you, though. Let's all it a tip.Do as I did. Move to the Philippines, date your ass off until you meet the one, and live happily ever after.I did meet the one, we're now building a house in a peaceful province and she will give birth to our child in August, so it is possible:)
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I’m married to a Filipina. She’s the most wonderful wife and girlfriend a guy could ask for. She’s beautiful, young, sexy, easy going, funny. We love each other so much and get along so well, we are like best friends. It wasn’t easy. I paid the price for it. I went through 2 rotten girlfriends in the Philippines, slept with 4 different Filipinas over there, before I found a girl that was actually amazing and not a bad girl. They are not all great, they are not all rotten. You have to find a good one. My advice: Stay away from Manila and Cebu. A country girl is what you want from over there. A girl from the province, as they say. My girl is from Laguna. Also stay away from Subic Bay or Clark AFB, those areas were my first exposure to the Philippines and where a developed a taste for Filipina’s. But they are all rotten over there in those areas. After many frustrations with actually meeting Filipinas in person (my job was the cause of me visiting the Philippines for the first time and meeting Filipinas) and trying to develop real relationships (these were the scammers and the whores), I finally decided to try my luck on the online dating sites. I made a few friends there, most of them were not spectacular, but I eventually met my wife on one of these sites. DO NOT send any gifts or money. Not until you are absolutely, positively sure of the persons character. Even then, very little. Do not become the bank for the family. A good Filipina and her family is very humble and shy about asking for help. They have pride.Establish ground rules early.Expect to get married and have children. Don’t be wishy washy about it, state these as a goal. Most Filipinas are motivated by family, and they want families of their own and love the idea of having a husband and being a wife and having children is almost certainly going to be part of that picture.Don’t marry a nurse or any other professional. Not unless you are absolutely positively sure of her character and she really loves you. There are people that will do ANYTHING to get to the United States. We have people who will load their children up in boxcars from Mexico and send them over in trains alone just for a chance to live in the US, so don’t be surprised about what people will do. I hate to say it but you want someone who is going to be somewhat dependent on you to take care of her that way you can be reasonably assured shes not using you as a free ride over. Dont jump all over me for it, I spent a plane ride sitting next to a man who was going back over to meet another girl because his first wife, a nurse, jumped ship as soon as she got the green card. It happens.I’ve had my head in the Philippines so to speak for the last 6 years now. My first trip there was 2014 and I have visited the country a total of 5 times. A good part of my ships crew is Filipino. I hit my head a few times but was eventually successful. If you go down this path, and if at any point along the way your Spidey senses tell you something is wrong, listen to them. Love should never feel like terror or dread. If shes legit, you’re going to know it and there will be NO red flags. Just dont be stupid and start lying to yourself. If you feel terror or dread RUN. Your subconscious often knows things your conscious mind cant put into words yet.