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Whenever I date women from Indonesia, Thailand, Vietnam, China or the Philippines, they usually ask me to give them a monthly stipend. Why?
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Filipino here so this only applies to my observation with Filipinos. Last December, me and my kids went home for vacation. When I went to the supermarket, I have seen a young Filipino woman carrying a 1-year old boy who looks white and an old white man was following her carrying also a young girl. I thought the girl was a nanny and the old man was the grandfather of the two kids. Then I heard the young girl called the girl mommy and the old man daddy. I didn't believe what I heard so I observed more. And it was confirmed that they are indeed a couple. I can't really take my mind from them even when they have left. The man was almost 65 and the girl was estimated to be in her early 20s. I don't really care but the age gap was too much. And every time I go to that supermarket, I see more couples of the same situation. Always an old foreigner (mostly white) and a very young girl in tow. I have also an experience where I met a British guy from a dating site. He was 58 and I was 37. He offered me immediately to take care of me and my two children, to marry me. I saw that as a very desperate move. You see the pattern? I don't know how old are you. I don't know where did you meet these Filipino girls. Young Filipino girls who are usually from the poor provinces are mostly the victims or the culprits of relationships like these which of course the main agenda is money. They see foreigners as someone who is rich nd will support them and their family. We also have a culture where if one is married to a foreigner, whites to be specific, you are looked up on. They say you are lucky because they equate a foreigner to wealth and of course good looking offsprings. This is just n observation though. I don't also stereotype those older men who wanted young Asian girls as that is their choice but don't complain when you will become a milking cow of the whole clan. Edit: I have seen that that OP is not old, so half of my answer doesn't apply to his case. But as what others answered, it’s all about where and how did you meet. Also, if you present yourself to be very rich that you try to show how rich you are by buying all her wants and try to entice her with your money, then be prepared that she expects you to finance her.
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I’m a filipino and yes there are some who do that most especially if they are poor. Well not all are like that, its just that you have to find the right one. I know someone, the guy is Italian and he dated a filipina with a kid but she never obliged the person to provide monthly allowance for them. Because she has a good paying job and she loves the man. So try to find the right one.