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Before I marry a Filipina / Pinay, what are some things I should know? We have been dating for 4 years. I feel like I know her pretty well.
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You have been dating 4 years (is that online or in the Philippines) If online, how much time have you spent together in the Philippines and has she been to visit your country as yet so you can see how she handles life in another Country which is so different from the Philippines. Make sure that you guys chat about how things will work after marriage (I have video on this on my YouTube channel), but some important things are around where you will live after marriage (your country or the Philippines), if you guys wish to have children, what work will she do if she comes to your country, does she want to send money home to her family each month and if so how much, to whom will she send it and for how long, and are you OK with this. Have you learned about TAMPO and does she do this, if so can you manage it? If she is coming to live with you in your Country how often will she want to go back to the Philippines (this can vary greatly) Really just talk to her about all the important issues prior to marriage so you guys will be on the same page with no unexpected surprises after marriage.
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First of all, ask yourself if you love her. If you are not 100% sure, go to the last question.Then, ask yourself if she has always been honest with you and whether you think she has integrity. Do you trust her ? If you have any slight doubt, think again.Find out about her family and her distant relatives. Find out their expectations of her marrying a “rich” foreigner. Then ask your girl what her view is of their expectations.Find out if she had worked in the “oldest profession” or in a bar. If in doubt, hire a detective to find out. If yes, I would avoid her.Find out if she has any venereal diseases.Find out her expectations and plans regarding future finances after marriage. Will she rely on your entirely ? Will she plan to work herself ? Will she need to send money back to her family ?Find out if she has or had male genitalia, unless that is what you prefer. (Philippines has the 2nd highest number of ladyboys in the world).Do you think you will survive without her ?