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How do you win a Filipina/Pinay Heart?
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How do you win a Filipina/Pinay Heart?
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Since I'm Filipino, I know exactly how you can make a Filipina fall in love with you. Our female counterparts are like Roses, they are very sweet-looking and endearing at first glance, but better be careful, you might get hurt by her thorns and thistles if you're going to provoke her. Believe me, your life will be a living hell. Here are few pointers for foreigners seeking to win the heart of a Filipina: Be courteous. Traditionally, courteous men exhibiting gallantry and chivalry will most likely win the heart of a Filipina. We have a long tradition of burdensome and exhausting courtship rituals, just to get the hands of Filipinas in marriage. Be kind and generous. You don't need expensive cars and need not to treat her to the most extravagant restaurants. You simply showing your sincere affection is more than enough. Love her family. We Filipinos, are very much family-oriented. We sacrifice a lot of our dreams just for the betterment of our families. Here, blood is thicker than water. Filipinas are the most loving when it comes to their families. She is willing to leave everything behind in her own country, so that her clan may experience the good things in life through her assistance. If you have tons of ugly comments regarding her Mom, Dad, Bro, Sis, Cousins, Aunts, Uncles and other members of her clan, you have lost half of the battle. Try to learn her language . She may speak good English, but she will very much appreciate if you can express your affection in her own native tongue. I advise you learn her local tongue and the national language. If you know she's right, don't try to argue. It will make things worse. Foreigners with a lot of airy attitude in them will be dumped by Filipinas if they don't learn to accept their wrongdoing. The matriarchal instinct of this country is very strong, having rooted from our early cultures before we are colonized by the Spaniards. Women are warriors, traders and governors during our pre-colonial era. She can be as ferocious as her male counterparts. She is not the typical blue-eyed, blonde-haired, damsel-in-distress locked up in a castle in some cultures. She is ruler of the household. Kids here will most likely obey the advices of their Mothers than their Fathers. The house is her dominion. You're the one who should adjust. Hand her the finances. This will be difficult for most foreigners who are frugal. But believe me, the Filipina is a very good accountant. She can use very little finance to make both ends meet. These are just some of the advices in winning the heart of a Filipina. Hope this helps. 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Ive known a pinay now 7 years. I flew to the Philippines for her. Only to ask her out in which we arranged would be formal and proper. She accepted and her family accepts me. We are just into our beginning stages of a long distance relationship. We both want to marry but will do it when the time God likes. We love each other and im looking forward to visiting iloilo again.